In Park Bench Dating you will discover how
easy it is to:
- Start approaching the most beautiful women without fear in any daytime environment. It is easier then you think.
- Learn the day time meeting method in three steps, which will take you from your approach and first words with a woman, to the following conversation and getting her number all in under 5 minutes.
- Learn why women are three times more receptive to your approach during the daytime rather than in bars and clubs at night. Start getting dates and numbers as a normal part of your day.
- Gain bullet proof confidence in your ability to meet and approach women. Start dating women that you truly want.
About author: Arthur Malov is renowned expert on the topic of day time meeting and dating. He has been featured in The New York Times, Downtown, Learning Annex and numerous other publications, radio programs and TV shows around the USA. He is currently working with private clients and teaching seminars in NYC.
How would you like to have the power and ability to meet the women that you want at anytime during the day?
Meeting women in the daytime might seem like a far fetched idea. You may ask, “Can it really be done?” The answer is not only a strong “Yes”, it is in fact a much more welcoming time for men to meet women rather than night clubs and bars. Best of all, you can meet women any time, anywhere as you go through your day. Then, later you can go out to night clubs and bars, but why would you? You already have dates lined up for next week.
Do you really need any special knowledge to approach women in the daytime? No, you can go out right now and approach, but it is very likely that you will be shut down if you just go out and approach blindly. That's why I wrote this guide, to help you navigate and avoid mistakes that will make or break your daytime approach and point you in the right direction when it comes to meeting and dating women that you want.
I always hoped a woman would approach me or give me a sign that it was "the right time" to approach her. That rarely happened, and even when it did, it would inevitably be from a woman that I wasn't attracted to at all. Have you ever thought as though you were waiting for a sign? Have you ever thought to yourself, “what would have happened if I had approached that woman standing in line? She was totally my type.” Well, I have and I was sick and tired of seeing these opportunities go to waste. I was tired of hoping that something beyond my control would happen and that "prefect woman" would find me. But I wasn't sure where to start, since I didn’t like the typical nightlife scene. Then it hit me: I see so many women that I like in the day time, why can't I start meeting them then? Soon, I began to meet women as I went to work, as I was doing my shopping, as I strolled in the park and even as I was using the elevator.
I wanted to meet women on my own time and not have to wait until "the right time."
At first, I stumbled and fell. However, soon enough I had learned the skills that would make or break day time approaches. I discovered the best ways to start conversations with women, how to honestly "click" with women and how to get numbers, sometimes in just a few minutes. After I spent years meeting women in the day time, I would go out to the night clubs or bars and feel surprised at how unfriendly and fake the atmosphere was. Everyone was playing a game. I didn’t want to play games. I wanted results. The next day, I would go back to approaching women in the daytime, and the difference in connection and reception was drastic. Dates were plentiful. It was a different world. I experimented with approaches, dates, taking of the numbers, just to see what works and what does not.
Years after, I've discovered how to meet women during the daytime and get dates all the time. I began to coach men to get similarly effective results with women. I took my clients to the parks, stores, art galleries and other day time places. I would show them how easy it was to get a good and honest connection with a woman without any games or tricks and how to take a number in just a few minutes. You might have recently seen a woman that you found attractive and wanted to start conversation with her, but did you? if the answer is no, then this book will transform how you view approaching and dating in daytime.
This book is a guide that has already helped many men to meet women who they desire, on their own time and their own terms, while enjoying the process of meeting and dating. Will I make a magical transformation in your social life? Possibly, but what I have in this book, is not "magic or a secret transformation” but practical methods that work as long as you put them to practice. I want you to read this book, walk out of your home and meet beautiful women at any time you are outside. Can you handle the task? Results are more than worth it.
Revised edition adds much more:
June 2009
How to improvise in day time, learning to think on a spot
How to create interesting two minute stories on the spot : never be at loss for words again
Five reasons why Nice Guys don't get the women that they want and how to shatter Nice Guy negative habits and learn how to exude cool guy confidence instead
- Verbal and non-verbal signals
that women communicates every time when they are interested in you.
- Five psychological elements
So effective, that they ALONE will improve the quality and the effectiveness of your day time approach by triple the positive response and numbers that you'll get from women
- Exclusive step by step 30 day assignment guide
Showing you exactly what to do to get from where you are right now to where you are meeting women all the time anywhere.
It breaks down the "How To..." of meeting women during the day time into the simplest steps. It will give you direction and will require only minimal effort on your part, just apply it to your daily activities and you will see the difference.
Park Bench Dating is packed with 120+ pages of hands on material that will
change how you meet and date women in day time.
Excerpts from the Book: You’ve just met an attractive woman in a grocery store. It was out of the blue. You didn’t expect to meet anyone. Or was it really unexpected? Reality is, you miss dozens of opportunities like this every day, and it is up to you to become aware of this moments and be able to do something about it. Pg. 9
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During the day, a real time-constraint is very natural. You meet a woman in line for lunch, you have a great conversation with her and then you have to go back to work and so does she -- this is a time constraint. Now if you’re really having a great time with her and you tell her that you have to leave, she will not let you go without her number. Pg 54 What not to say: Don't say "Excuse me" when you start a conversation with a woman. 95% of the guys make this mistake, and pay for it by conversation going down the hill from there. It is very easy to make this mistake, try to start conversation without using "Excuse me", chances are you will go back to excuse me when you are nervous. That's why you need to know this... Pg 91 As men, we want to bypass those games. It’s very interesting how women will say “I don’t play games” and then they won’t call a guy for a few days just to see what his reaction will be. Best way not to play her game, is not to play game at all. Be aware of her trying to play it and call on it, and there will be no games. Pg 20 When you are asking for a date a very common response that you will hear from women is: "I am not sure yet about Thursday, but you can call me on Thursday and we will make plans." Or something along those lines, yet all the responses have one thing in common, they are leaving you hanging until the day of the date without any real plans. Never settle for plans that are up in the air, ever. Ever. Ever! When she says this, the meaning is "I will keep you as a backup if I really have got nothing else to do, because I don’t really care about your time.".... On average, for my past clients, the amount of dates that actually happened, have risen by about 50% once they stopped allowing women to leave date plans up in the air. Think about it, instead of scheduling 10 dates and then 5 of them being canceled aka flaked, you can improve to 8 out of 10 just by following this one principle. pg 115 What you say doesn't have to make sense. As long as there's a connection that is "somewhere" in the ball park of making sense, most things that you say will sound fine and create connection between you and a woman. Pg 71 When you are alone and you start a conversation with a woman in line at a Starbucks, you’ll have to convey the essence of your personality in only a few words. Even before you say anything, your body language and the tone of your voice will be paid very close subconscious attention to by the woman. Pg 67 Unless
you've met her from your own social circle, you shouldn’t even see her
friends until you've begun dating. Pg 108 What you say should come from within, maybe something you notice about her Big problem for men is they often try too hard to impress on a date. The word “impress” is bad when it comes to dating. First, right away it puts the women in a frame of being the prize; it puts her on a pedestal. After you have decided that you want to impress her, all of your actions will come from the perspective of “I have to do this right and I don’t want to make a mistake.” Consequently, mistakes are inevitable. pg 112
clothing or what book she is reading. But don’t just say, “Hey what book are you reading?” It’s much more effective to make bold statements or reframe the action she’s taking in a different light. If a woman bumps into you, you can say something that puts the situation in a different light, rather then just " i am sorry." For example... pg 51
Testimonials
“Park Bench Dating” is one of those rare books that cuts right to the heart of the matter.
If you’re a guy and you’re looking for specific ways to meet and date women during the day time, this is the book for you.
Art Malov has distilled his years of experience as an expert day time dating coach for men into one volume that will get you over the humps of how to meet women that you want, as a part of your daily activity.
A must read book for the guy who wants more from life.
Michael Kevans, Talent Magazine
Art was my first mentor when learning how to deal with women socially. He taught me so much every time we met, and the lessons have never gone away. His guidance is fun while being devoid of BS, and that's a rare thing in this world, let alone among so-called social gurus. A great credit of my own success is in no small part a credit to Art as a teacher. He is truly a master of day game.
Future, Mystery Method Instructor
Meeting women at night clubs and bars was always a turn off for me because of the fake and unfriendly atmosphere. This book helped me to start meeting women that i want in the day time while having a real and sincere connection without tiring games and tricks. While Art could add some more details about meeting ethnic girls and give few more examples of approach, over all i am getting more numbers, more dates and actually meeting women in the day = well worth the money.
James B, Los Angeles
I started reading "Park Bench Dating" and decided to put the knowledge into action, the very next day I've met 5 women that I had never spoken to before. I chose one of them and started dating her. During the first few dates and a lot of approaches, I made many mistakes, but with the help of the advice that was described in the book, I did what before would've been impossible for me, I GOT the girl. Some of you can still wait for the miracle in their life until they die. Well, the others must read this book.
Truly yours,
Peter D, New York
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